cheating is never okay

There are a lot of reasons why a guy cheats as well as why a girl cheats nowadays. It may still not be a norm that a girl cheats, but, yes. Reality check, there are girls these days that do cheat. Who is there to blame? I really do not know.

As one of the youths before (I confess, I'm not a teen anymore! LOL) I have seen a lot of love that has been broken because of the third party issue. I, myself, have been a victim of that also. That is why, as a victim, I have asked myself why do some of us cheat? What is in cheating that some people do enjoy?

Some people cheat because:
1. His girlfriend is a nagger. One small thing becomes a big thing. She never stops complaining. Always putting up a fight. Now, boyfriend will get tired listening and find someone a lot more silent.

2. Her boyfriend takes her for granted. She loves being taken cared of. She loves to know that her boyfriend knows how to please her. Now, if boyfriend can't do this to her, girlfriend will find the care and attention to guy number 2.

3. Girlfriend does not take care of him. Just like any other people, a guy needs to be take cared also. A guy also needs pampering, you know. So, if girl number 2 who knows how to take care of him comes along, he settles for her instead.

4. Girlfriend does not air out what she wants and boyfriend can't understand what he will do OR vice versa. Yes, when in a relationship, do not think that the other can always read your mind. Sometimes, you need to air out what you want and don't keep the other from guessing. Guessing and predicting are for fortune tellers, not lovers.

There are still a lot of reasons why a guy or girl cheats. Yet, one thing is for sure, no matter what the reason is, cheating is never okay. What happened to "let's end this" or "let's break up" lines? If you are starting to fall for someone new or if you realized you actually do not like the one you're with, use the "let's end this" or "let's break up" lines. Do not be an A-hole and try to act that every thing is okay. Voice out and respect each other. No one wants to be cheated for Pete's sake.